Charlie’s Toolbox
You’ve done the profound work of decentering men. But what comes next? How do you consciously build a life, a self, and an aesthetic that is unapologetically, authentically your own? Welcome to Charlie’s Toolbox. Here, we guide discerning women beyond mere liberation into active, intentional creation. We delve into the philosophical journey of Centering Yourself, finding your true internal compass; the meticulous craft of Self-Culture, designing your inner landscape of mind, emotions, and spirit; and the revolutionary philosophy of Aestheticized Healing, where your outer world becomes a tangible masterpiece of your inner evolution. Join us as we explore how to bridge your deepest truths with your outward expression, curating a life of power, presence, and profound authenticity. From philosophical frameworks to cultural touchstones, discover the tools to embody your most vibrant, self-authored reality. This is where your next chapter begins: a life, a self, and an aesthetic forged entirely by you.
Episodes

Thursday Jul 21, 2022
Thursday Jul 21, 2022
Join us in this captivating episode as we delve into the multifaceted, delightful, and empowering world of sex. Prepare for an engaging discussion on the transformative effects of decentering men in sexual desire and exploration.
Discover the exhilarating journey of embracing your own desires and pleasure, free from societal expectations and male-centric perspectives. We delve into the nuances of what unfolds when you prioritize your own satisfaction and reclaim agency over your sexual experiences.
Get ready for an enlightening conversation that challenges conventional norms, celebrates self-expression, and empowers you to navigate the complexities of sexual autonomy with confidence and authenticity. It's time to unleash your desires and revel in the joy of sexual self-discovery.
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Friday Jul 15, 2022
Friday Jul 15, 2022
Join us in this empowering episode as we dive into the world of high-functioning women and the transformative moment when they recognize their own battle with depression. Discover the profound insights and practical guidance on navigating the complex emotions that arise after this realization.
We explore the powerful journey of self-discovery, providing valuable tools and strategies to help high-functioning women harness their inner strength. Learn how to manage and navigate the emotional landscape effectively, embracing the path to healing and empowerment.
Get ready to embark on an empowering discussion that will inspire and guide you toward a life of renewed hope, resilience, and fulfillment. It's time to embrace your journey and conquer the challenges of depression with unwavering confidence.
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Thursday Jul 07, 2022
Thursday Jul 07, 2022
Join us in this captivating episode as we delve into the thought-provoking article, 'Confessions Of A Perpetually Single Woman,' penned by the insightful Morgan Parker. Discover the profound reasons why choosing yourself is an essential act of empowerment. Gain a deeper understanding of the impact of honoring yourself versus dishonoring your own needs and desires.
Furthermore, we explore the transformative journey of framing and accepting the gift of choosing yourself. Uncover valuable insights and practical advice on how to embrace this gift and unlock a path to self-discovery and fulfillment. Get ready to embark on a powerful exploration of self-empowerment and the art of honoring your own worth.
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Thursday Jun 30, 2022
Thursday Jun 30, 2022
Discover the captivating world of settling in this enlightening episode as we explore its three distinct types. Delve into a profound understanding of what settling truly entails, gaining clarity on its impact. Join us as we equip you with invaluable tips and strategies to break free from this limiting habit. Empower yourself to embrace a life filled with fulfillment, authenticity, and the realization of your true potential. Get ready to unlock the doors to a brighter future!
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Thursday Apr 28, 2022
Thursday Apr 28, 2022
In part 1, we discussed the art of getting back to yourself. I asked you to acknowledge you are in a pandemic because that plays a role in your discontent or not feeling like you. I asked you to love your routine but also make space for spontaneity. Sometimes patterns can make your life feel dull. Finally, win small! Winning small feels like a jolt, and sometimes you need that jolt to make you feel good. To feel like you! Part 2. We will discuss your thoughts and your environment. There are particular ways they hinder you from feeling and being who you want to be.
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Thursday Apr 07, 2022
Thursday Apr 07, 2022
The pandemic has not only impacted many of us physically, but we've all experienced extreme grief that has caused many of us to lose the spark, the hunger, and the joy that once fueled us. This episode will discuss ways to navigate this feeling and tips to help spark some pleasure.
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Wednesday Jan 26, 2022
Wednesday Jan 26, 2022
In this episode, Charlie discusses ways to process your losses. When you fail, you keep all this doubt, pain, blame, or blame that looks like self-reflection, shame, and guilt inside. We don't have the tools or the space to learn how to accept our L's and move on from it without it impacting the hope of the future and the happiness of now. So, the question begs to be asked, how do we make peace with our past mistakes? How do we let go of shame? How do we move forward?

Wednesday Jan 05, 2022
Wednesday Jan 05, 2022
In this episode, Charlie discusses the art of choosing yourself. Choosing yourself is an art that no one discusses. They do not tell you the how or the why. This episode will break down the steps to help you choose yourself. I will also show you the benefit of that choice.
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Friday Oct 22, 2021
Friday Oct 22, 2021
No one talks about friendships or their dynamics, but friendships are not a one size fit all thing. Some fit a certain role. Some are worth keeping and Some friendships you have to close the door on it. So, how do you figure out which is which?
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Wednesday Oct 13, 2021
Wednesday Oct 13, 2021
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Look deep into the societal constructs that prioritize men and learn how to break free from these norms to empower yourself truly. This video challenges the traditional narrative that women's lives should revolve around men and offers insightful strategies for decentering men from your life goals.
Please visit my website to get more information: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ Discover why achieving the roles of wife or mother isn't the only path to fulfillment and how to cultivate a life rich in self-worth and independence. Join us in unlearning the processes that create harm and stepping into a more empowered and balanced existence.
Subscribe for more empowering content. However, when they achieve these goals, they often find out it could have been more fulfilling. After years of dating and trying to be loved, validated, and cared for, they learn that this patriarchal society does not fully equip men with these skills. If anything, it teaches them to destroy these skills actively. As a result, women are trained to be accessories to men, while men are trained to destroy their humanity. This imbalance creates harm. Therefore, this video is dedicated to unlearning processes that create harm. In this video, you'll learn why men should not be the center of your life and how to decenter men. You will leave this video empowered.
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This video is about Boost Empowerment: Best Tips How To Decent Men And Redefine Your Life Goals.
But It also covers the following topics:
- Empowerment Strategies For Women
- Decentering Men In Society
- Overcoming Gender Norms
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✅ Recommended Playlists
👉 Centering Yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-m4jjPMW1FA&list=PLfcIYcroqvQnzKJlj-hxOwwZWjOXNUGoG&pp=iAQB
👉 Decentering Men https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7B4n3ka0e3s&list=PLfcIYcroqvQm4Nva3ZTRy5G8ihXLeDBDl&pp=iAQB ✅
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👉 The Consequences of Devaluing Non-Romantic Love https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_CVVqwAR-cA
👉 Ep. 81 Growing Old Gracefully: Finding Joy in The Excitement of Aging https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnQWsFB6gZ4
👉 Ep. 80 How Recovering from Codependency Helps You Decenter Men https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Ykg8z4-Zbc
👉 Ep. 79 Step Away from Self-Help https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTnZA8GijOw
👉 Ep. 78 Why Do You Hesitate to Decenter Men? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9q-_JYBDpVo =============================
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