Charlie’s Toolbox
You’ve done the profound work of decentering men. But what comes next? How do you consciously build a life, a self, and an aesthetic that is unapologetically, authentically your own? Welcome to Charlie’s Toolbox. Here, we guide discerning women beyond mere liberation into active, intentional creation. We delve into the philosophical journey of Centering Yourself, finding your true internal compass; the meticulous craft of Self-Culture, designing your inner landscape of mind, emotions, and spirit; and the revolutionary philosophy of Aestheticized Healing, where your outer world becomes a tangible masterpiece of your inner evolution. Join us as we explore how to bridge your deepest truths with your outward expression, curating a life of power, presence, and profound authenticity. From philosophical frameworks to cultural touchstones, discover the tools to embody your most vibrant, self-authored reality. This is where your next chapter begins: a life, a self, and an aesthetic forged entirely by you.
Episodes

Wednesday Mar 15, 2023
Wednesday Mar 15, 2023
It's Women's History Month and as promised I have another interview. This interview was filled with vulnerability and I hope that you see strength in it. Remember, there are many facets to centering yourself, and being your authentic self everywhere is the best way

Wednesday Mar 08, 2023
Wednesday Mar 08, 2023
Every day I receive questions about what it looks like to center yourself. I also receive complaints about how hard it is or how much women struggle to make decisions for themselves. So, I thought it would be a great idea to interview women from all backgrounds to show you that centering yourself is not as complex as it seems. In the first episode, we are interviewing Valese Jones public relations extraordinaire

Wednesday Mar 01, 2023
Wednesday Mar 01, 2023
Every day I receive questions about what it looks like to center yourself. I also receive complaints about how hard it is or how much women struggle to make decisions for themselves. So, I thought it would be a great idea to interview women from all backgrounds to show you that centering yourself is not as complex as it seems. In the first episode, we are interviewing Amina Aweis, a former software engineer who advocates for web accessibility.

Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
For those who are hyper-vigilant and tend to bolt at the slightest discomfort, and for those who go all-in on the dating process and take it to heart, this episode is for you. Both of these groups share a common problem: they suffer from past relationships or childhood traumas that leave them without the emotional boundaries necessary to cope with the anxieties that come with dating.
If you find yourself constantly on edge, ready to flee at the first sign of trouble, or if you invest heavily in every aspect of dating and take every rejection to heart, know that you are not alone. By understanding and addressing the underlying emotional issues that drive these behaviors, you can learn to establish healthy boundaries and approach dating with greater confidence and ease.
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Wednesday Feb 15, 2023
Wednesday Feb 15, 2023
Improving your self-worth is a topic that many of us can relate to, as it's something we all struggle with from time to time. With that being said, in this episode, we will be discussing a few steps that can help you build your self-worth.
I encourage you to take note of these steps and add them to your life toolbox. By doing so, you're taking an important step towards improving your self-esteem and becoming the best version of yourself. So, let's dive in and explore the ways to boost your self-worth.
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#decentermen #dating #selfhelp.
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Wednesday Feb 08, 2023
Wednesday Feb 08, 2023
In this episode, we address the holiday blues that single women may experience. Unfortunately, many single individuals feel down during the holidays because they witness couples enjoying the festivities and exchanging gifts. However, it's important to remember that their happiness shouldn't make you feel bad. Instead, you can adopt a positive outlook and enjoy the holidays in your own unique way.

Friday Feb 03, 2023
Friday Feb 03, 2023
There has been so much that people have gone through these past couple of years. People have experienced death, isolation, disruption to their everyday life, heartbreak, political unrest, failure, and the loss of their job. These moments are earth-shattering and have a profound effect on every one of us. Though I cannot make these situations easier, with less grief, and sadness, I can help you process them and move forward in a hopeful and optimistic way. You should leave this episode understanding that life is hard, but to keep your joy, you must find ways to process losses, learn, and try to find the hopeful side of every experience.
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Tuesday Jan 17, 2023
Tuesday Jan 17, 2023
As we welcome the new year, many of us have weight and body goals in mind. However, these goals can often lead to negative self-talk and self-criticism. In this episode, our aim is to offer helpful tips and tools to encourage body positivity and appreciation.
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Wednesday Jan 11, 2023
Wednesday Jan 11, 2023
Welcome to this week's episode of Charlie's Toolbox. Today, we'll be discussing physical and emotional safety. It's a critical subject that requires attention. Unfortunately, I've noticed that some dating advice meant for experienced sex workers is being shared with those who lack the same level of expertise. This is unacceptable because predators can prey on someone's naivety and use it as an opportunity for violence. It's essential for everyone to understand the true meaning of safety and what it entails.

Monday Jan 02, 2023
Monday Jan 02, 2023
In this week's episode, we will be discussing an important topic that relates to the pain of losing a friend due to betrayal. With recent videos highlighting the hurt caused by these situations, it's important to address ways to deal with this type of emotional pain.
By the end of the episode, you will have practical tips to help you cope with the loss of a dear friend. From understanding the stages of grief to finding healthy ways to express your emotions, we hope to provide helpful insights that can guide you through this difficult time. Remember, you are not alone in your struggle, and there are ways to heal and move forward.
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#decentermen #dating #selfhelp.
Listen to Charlie's Toolbox on:
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