Charlie’s Toolbox

You’ve done the profound work of decentering men. But what comes next? How do you consciously build a life, a self, and an aesthetic that is unapologetically, authentically your own? Welcome to Charlie’s Toolbox. Here, we guide discerning women beyond mere liberation into active, intentional creation. We delve into the philosophical journey of Centering Yourself, finding your true internal compass; the meticulous craft of Self-Culture, designing your inner landscape of mind, emotions, and spirit; and the revolutionary philosophy of Aestheticized Healing, where your outer world becomes a tangible masterpiece of your inner evolution. Join us as we explore how to bridge your deepest truths with your outward expression, curating a life of power, presence, and profound authenticity. From philosophical frameworks to cultural touchstones, discover the tools to embody your most vibrant, self-authored reality. This is where your next chapter begins: a life, a self, and an aesthetic forged entirely by you.

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Episodes

Wednesday Jun 30, 2021

Anxiety is natural. Anxiety about dating is natural. Everyone has it, but the difference between a person enjoying their date while being slightly anxious and the other who lets her anxiety ruin her dating experience is how they manage it.
For more tools on dating and centering yourself on: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/
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Wednesday Jun 23, 2021

The truth is living in magic is harder than living without it. You have to decide if you want to live in magic, or if you’d prefer a different method. If you prefer to live in magic, you have to dedicate yourselves to even a glimmer of magic in life. So, how do we do that? How do we train our eyes, our hearts, and our souls to accept that magic can be found anywhere at any time and in any state of being? Listen to this episode to find out!
 

Tuesday Jun 15, 2021

Psychology Today defines self-sabotage as “Behavior that creates problems in daily life and interferes with long-standing goals. The most common self-sabotaging behaviors include procrastination, self-medication with drugs or alcohol, comfort eating, and forms of self-injury such as cutting.”  Many are not aware and don't know why they self-sabotage. In this episode, we discuss how to see your limiting actions and nurture them into actions that honor your highest self. 
 

Ep. 14 Stop Worrying About Dating

Wednesday Jun 09, 2021

Wednesday Jun 09, 2021

The truth is…. Dating is hard, but it isn’t.
It is hard when you are holding your breath, secretly waiting to be saved, validated by a partner. It is hard when one negative or ugly comment from a prospect sends you into a spiral. It is hard when you move your boundaries because this guy is GREAT! Even though you have no real way of knowing. It is especially hard when you feel that this is your only hope for happiness. However, It is easy when you’ve worked on yourself and know that this experience is for you. When you work on yourself, you don’t give weight to an opinion outside of yourself. When you know the experience is for you, you don’t audition instead you become the panel.
 
So, how do we date to make sure that dating is easy, listen here to find out!

Thursday May 27, 2021

This episode is dedicated to women who can’t quite make peace with their mistakes. In the next few minutes, I will go through tactics on how to better understand your mistakes. I will discuss the best ways to reframe them, find the lesson, and make peace with them.
 
For more tools on dating and centering yourself on: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/
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Listen to Charlie's Toolbox on:
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Tuesday May 18, 2021

30-year-old settling is subtle. Often only you know. Or your friends know, but love you too much to tell you this is not the best you can do. 30-year-old settling is not fully committing to mediocre, but sort of embracing it. Now, I understand that sometimes you just don’t have the fight in you, and good enough is well… good! But for those of you who want excellent, I have some tips to keep you going for when you just want to give up and settle.
 
For more tools on dating and centering yourself on: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestool...
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoo...
 
 
Listen to Charlie's Toolbox on:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7cQHIKl...
Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0...
 
 
 
 
 
 

Wednesday May 12, 2021

This week we discuss boundaries. I thought this was a great topic to dive into because it’s one of those topics that you have to constantly reflect on and readjust. In this episode, I will provide a couple of gentle guidelines that will help you get started with enacting strong boundaries.
For more tools on dating and centering yourself on: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestool...
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoo...
 
 
Listen to Charlie's Toolbox on:
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Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0...
 
 
 
 
 

Tuesday May 04, 2021

How do you own your life, accept it, and even go so far as to find pleasure and joy in it? In this episode, I provide tools for you to own your life. 
 
For more tools on dating and centering yourself on: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestool...
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoo...
 
 
Listen to Charlie's Toolbox on:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7cQHIKl...
Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0...
 
 
 
 
 

Friday Apr 30, 2021

A while ago I wrote a tweet that stated, “Girls, please be self-absorbed. I beg of you. It saves you from a lot of pain & heartbreak.” I had many women retweet, share on Instagram, and message me agreeing but asking how? In this episode, I will break down the contours of a self-centered life and by the end, you should have a full picture of what that looks like for you
 
For more tools on dating and centering yourself on: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestool...
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoo...
 
 
Listen to Charlie's Toolbox on:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7cQHIKl...
Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0...
 
 
 
 
 

Friday Apr 09, 2021

Fear is a powerful force. It is a response that warns or protects you from danger. Basically, its sole purpose is to help you survive. Fear is something we are supposed to have and it is extremely helpful. However, when exhausted and perverted, fear can be the very thing that stops you from enjoying life. In this episode, we will discuss methods to attack and confront fear. 
 
For more tools on dating and centering yourself on: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestool...
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoo...
 
 
Listen to Charlie's Toolbox on:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7cQHIKl...
Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0...
 
 
 
 
 

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